What’s Your Name?

And he said to her, “Daughter… “      Mark 5:34

Forrest Gump is the life story of a mentally challenged man (Tom Hanks), who accomplishes the incredible with his simple reasoning and persistence.

In one scene, Forrest and his childhood friend Jenny are walking down an old gravel road shaded by hardwood trees. Jenny carries her sandals, and the walk seems pleasant until they happen upon an abandoned, weather-worn house. The sight is horrifying to Jenny. It is her childhood home, a place where Jenny had been abused by her alcoholic father.

Forrest sees the pain etched on Jenny’s face as she walks ahead of him toward the old, abandoned house. Suddenly, Jenny throws her shoes at the house and then begins picking up rocks and furiously throwing them against the house. Years of pent-up anger are unleashed. When nothing is left to throw at the house, Jenny falls to the ground crying. Forrest sits down in the muddy driveway beside her, and says, “Sometimes, I guess, there just aren’t enough rocks.”

I know people who would like to throw a few rocks. Maybe at the house that they grew up in, maybe at cancer. Maybe a rock at dissolving relationships that no one knows about. Maybe a rock at depression. Maybe a rock at the pain that can’t even be named. 

I imagine the woman in this story would like to have thrown a rock or two.

In Jesus’ day, there was no condition more debilitating and humiliating than this hemorrhage from which she suffered. It was some sort of chronic menstrual disorder. It affected her in many ways. It affected her marriage. She couldn’t sleep with her own husband. She couldn’t bear children. Also, ceremonially everything she touched was unclean. She couldn’t prepare meals, wash a dish, and she couldn’t wash clothes.

She must have experienced chronic fatigue. Always weak and tired. She couldn’t go into the Temple and worship. She went to many doctors and found no relief—finances dwindling to nothing. And instead of getting better, she was getting worse.

In the end, all she had was hope and a prayer.

And then, at the ripe old age of 30, Jesus calls her “daughter.”

I wonder how long it had been since any term of endearment had been spoken to her. How long had it been since she had someone speak low to her? We know she had not shared her bed with her husband for 12 years. And yet here the God of the Universe calls her “daughter.”

There is a promise in the last book of the Bible that Jesus gave to his followers. He says, “I will…give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it.”

What name would you long to be called? If you could pick your own term of endearment, what would it be?

You might be surprised what the name is and you might be shocked at whose voice Jesus uses to tell you your new name.

Recently, a pastor from another state sent me an email containing what he said he would say about me at my funeral.

I know it is weird, but I’d like to share with you what he sent me.

I had never given much thought to caring for my soul…. Until my soul was already in trouble. That is when, in the Lord’s merciful providence, I met Joe. We met at a denominational meeting several years back. Going into that meeting, I was hurting. Our family was grieving the tragic loss of my son’s best friend…. My wife had been diagnosed with a life-threatening health condition (in fact, as Joe and I were meeting, she was in the hotel room, so sick from her latest round of chemo that she could barely move). Going into that meeting, I had no idea what Soul Care was…. I just knew I was hurting, and I didn’t know what to do about it.

In our first meeting…My pain and my problems were met with a listening ear and genuine concern. At times, I tried to talk, and the words wouldn’t come out. I cried some. He listened. He shared a poem with me (typical Joe, right?) But the thing that really stuck with me….

As we were finishing up, Joe wanted to pray for me…. But it wasn’t the prayer that stuck with me…. As he began to pray, he paused for just a moment….. a brief silence with a deep exhale…. And in the pause before the prayer…. I felt rest.  I felt comfort. I felt renewed hope. I don’t remember the prayer…. But I remember the pause. In the pause, my soul rested, was refilled, and the joy of the Lord was restored.

Joe was the pastor of the pause.

I’ve been a preacher since 1978 and I’ve taken great pride in having the right words for the right moment. I’ve written a book—words matter to me. Words are the medium that I use to paint pictures and convey faith, hope, and love—or so I thought. But to be called “The Pastor of the Pause” really touched my soul. In other words, God spoke to this brother through what I didn’t say. One of the best things ever said to me: The Pastor of the Pause.

What name would you love to hear from your Lord?

The healing in this woman’s body paled in comparison to the wholeness that came to her soul as Jesus in a soft, low, and tender voice called her daughter. 

If you are very quiet—paused—you might just hear Him, call your name.

Then maybe you can drop your rocks.

About Joe Chambers

I am the beloved of the Most High God. I am an avid reader and writer and have been a continuous learner since my college studies in Ancient Literature and English. I live at the base of Mount Princeton in the Colorado Rockies with my wife of over three decades. I believe I have been put here to tell people that God is not mad at them and to show them the way Home. I am the father of three sons, three beautiful daughters-in-law and four grandchildren. I love to read, tell stories, and spend time in the wilderness.
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